Don’t Just Be Against Violence When Its White on Black (ala Trayvon Martin)
Last year I was honored to be a speaker at the St. Louis’ Trayvon Martin rally with Vandalyzm, Corey Black, and Ronnie Notch. The event was something that got people […]
View ArticleWhy Do We Care So Much About How Much Money Athletes Make?
Last week LeBron James made a statement last week that had some people in a serious tizzy. LeBron James said “It doesn’t matter to me, being the highest-paid guy in […]
View ArticleGuess Who is Rockin With IBM and Smarter Commerce??
You all have problem seeing some of my posts having the hashtag #Mysmartercommerce and wondering what the hell is going on. Well finally, I am able to let the cat […]
View ArticleA Man In A Relationship Is Far More Attractive Than A Man Who Is Not
When I was looking for a relationship/mate/love I couldn’t find one but once I was no longer looking people came out of the woodworks.” ~Everybody This is doubly true for […]
View ArticleThe Date-Ability Score Chart
When I first started this blog I wrote a post comparing someone’s relationship acumen to a credit score. This guest post this week decides to take this to another angle. […]
View ArticleHaving Empathy For Someone’s Struggle
I’ve talked to a lot of people in my life. People from all different backgrounds, countries, nationality, personality and so forth. Comments that never seems to change when I’m talking […]
View ArticleYou Are So Used To Losing That You Don’t Even Know When You Are Winning
I have written about before that the worst enemy we have is our own selves. The way our mind constructs and sees the world is something that is constantly needs […]
View ArticleWhen Losers Comment On Pretty Girl Photos
I follow a number of attractive women on Social Media and there has always been this trend of creeper, loser-types who post comments that they assume is flattering to women. […]
View ArticleThe Word for The Day…”Rape”
Culture has a whole really has a problem contextualizing the idea of what rape is. We as a society in many ways have swept some facets of rape under the […]
View Article“Do I Look Like An ATM?”: Filling Souls With Soles
Across America about ten years ago, long lines of adults began crowding outside of retail stores, often sleeping outside overnight, elbowing and fighting for their chance to purchase products, such […]
View ArticleOpen Friday: Am I Wrong For Wanting My Man to Change Jobs For Me?
FATC, Love the new layout and design of the site! Well let me get right into my question. I have dated a guy for about a year and he is […]
View ArticleRelationship Titles…What Is The Point?
My male friend and I always seem to have this discussion because for the life of me, personally, I didn’t get it. Him and a female friend are doing everything […]
View ArticleThe 10 Cuffin Commandments
After checking the monthly forecast, it appears that spring is finally upon us. This means the start of baseball season, flowers blooming and white women wearing little to no clothes […]
View ArticleThe Right Man/Woman IS NOT Going to Make You A Better Person
The other day I was watching the movie As Good as It Gets with Jack Nicholson and Helen Hunt. There is a scene in the movie where Nicholson’s character says […]
View ArticleWhy Are You Dwelling On Past Or The Future?…Live For Today!
I actually originally wrote this post two years ago but I received a heart-felt email from someone yesterday who was worried about a family member being effected by the Boston […]
View ArticleIn The Review: You’re Not A Victim, You’re a Volunteer
This edition of “In The Review” we highlight writer Lincoln Anthony Blades of popular blog This is Your Conscience. He has a new book You’re Not a Victim, You’re a […]
View ArticleAllen Iverson…The Modern Shakespearean Tragedy
The last few months haven’t been the best for one Allen Iverson from no NBA team wanting to pick him up to his many financial problems He recently has been […]
View ArticleThe Marcus Graham Chronicles: You Won’t Know About Love Until There is Conflict
“The Marcus Graham Chronicles” is my personal journey of dealing with love and relationships. It is called the “Marcus Graham Chronicles because of my affinity for the movie “Boomerang” and […]
View ArticleThose Selfish and Entitled Women That Men Love
You would think that men would be smart enough to fight back against women demanding unrealistic and uncharacteristic things in a relationship, but the vicious cycle of strong women making […]
View ArticleBe Careful What You Wish For Because You Just Might Get It
I guess God was like, aight fine Careful what you wish for, cause you just might get it in heaps Try to give it back he be like – nah […]
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